When people of expected age pass away, we grieve. When people of unexpected age pass away, we grieve even more for their lack of time and space in this lifetime.

When a person close to you departs, you long for them to be back. When a person you barely even know departs, how should you feel? Should Death always be accompanied by extreme grieve? Or can we not feel guilty being calm over it? Perhaps, I feel sad that someone in this time and space is gone and that his loved ones are left behind alone.

To me, I lead my Life everyday with my mind boggled with all my problems, stress and expectations that I am shocked to realise again how truly fragile Life can be. And it only takes so little to bring someone away forever. Every minute, the hearts and soul of people are disappearing, taking down the hearts of the people they leave behind down many notches. As morbid as it sounds, I resolve to put in more effort to be happy and cherish the people around me.


I am not in J's shoes but I want to let you know that no matter how you feel, I'll be there for you. <3

Love,
BossaNovAlyssa